Have a Life You Can Be Proud Of

Continued from How To Become a Man of Value Even If You Don’t Have Any

Note: I have no idea why I chose to write these two posts like I did. Talking about the parallel between my internet marketing career and my love life. Please, be kind enough to leave a comment and let me know what you think.

After I became a man of value for others, I hit a wall. I was making money with affiliate marketing, promoting other people’s products to my list, however, it wasn’t enough. I am not talking about the money, I am talking about a sense of self-satisfaction and accomplishment. I wanted to create a product of my own. I wanted to make a difference. I wanted to help change other people’s lives.

The same was happening to my love life. I’ve been going out, meeting women, however, I kept recognizing their flaws which I used as excuses to terminate relationships. It was no good. I knew that I won’t find inner piece unless I find the ONE. I was desperate to find the woman of my dreams. The one that would have no flaws, no imperfections, she would be perfect in every way imaginable.

Researching my niche, I have found out several major internet marketing stepping stones no one in the industry was talking about. I’ve personally interviewed people, asking questions others didn’t usually ask. I dug deep to find out what can I do to make my fellow internet marketers’ lives easier and help them earn more money in shortest time possible.

Meanwhile, my love life demanded attention. I got very specific about what kind of a woman I wanted. I came up with a list of nearly 100 qualities I wanted her to have. I addressed behavior, looks, age and taste. I even got specific about the books and movies she loves…

When I’ve completed my research, I realized that over 90% of the internet marketers I interviewed had the same problems. They all had to deal with things like: lack of motivation, steep learning curve, failure to take action, lack of productivity, procrastination, etc. Mindset Issues. Serious Mindset Issues that were holding them back from reaching goals as small as an extra $100-$200 a month.

Interesting enough, 90% of homo sapiens experience the same kind of struggle with their love lives. They fail to take action, procrastinate and miss their opportunity to find their perfect mate. They spend their lives with the man/woman they don’t love (and sometimes – don’t even like) and hope that someday something will change. They secretly wish a miracle to happen and that special someone to appear on their front porch.

Dreams are nice, but experience shows that this is not the way things work in both dating and internet marketing. I am sorry to burst your bubble, but there are no miracles. Miracles won’t happen unless you make them happen. Mark Twain once said:

“The only place where success comes before work is the English dictionary”

Internet marketing and dating success require you to stop looking for get rich quick skims and Cinderella love stories. In marketing everything is done via application, testing and tweaking based on the results you get. In dating everything is done the same way. Adjusting as you go is the key to success. Which brings me back to my point:

Taking Action is the core difference between success and mediocrity. Condition yourself to take massive action on daily basis and your dreams will come true. If you haven’t yet done so, please watch this interview, where Tony Robbins explains how to best condition yourself for taking action.

2 months after I got specific about my dream woman, I met her. Now, we’re moved in together and I have no doubt that I am going to Marry her in the near future. At the same time, my product is being finalized as we speak. It will be launching very soon and I believe it will help a lot of internet marketers succeed by cutting the learning curve from years to moments, eliminating procrastination, increasing productivity and conditioning them to take Massive Action on daily basis.

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